Funny questions to ask when speed dating
), that are considered these huge sex symbols and are number 1 on every ‘hot list.’ Oh boy… I knew that sooner or later this question would come up and I would have to answer it.
And, like everything else, I will answer it honestly without sugar-coating.
So that everyone who knows you knows you’re with him and everyone who knows him knows he’s with you.
I can understand that and at the heart of it, I think it’s a nice thing. When I think of relationships, I like to keep it personal.
In other words, a woman who is the same size as another woman but has a higher amount of muscle than the other woman will actually weigh more than the less muscular woman.
So even though the woman looks better, she steps on the scale, sees a number she doesn’t like and then gets discouraged.
The good news for women out there is that the supposed ideal weight you’re aiming for might be significantly lower than what a man would consider ideal.
I took down my relationship status because I didn’t need my family, distant relatives, employers and ex-classmates to see every time I’ve started or ended a relationship.
They had hundreds of men look at pictures of women’s bodies and rate them according to which they found the most attractive.
Then, hundreds of women looked at these same pictures and rated how they than what the women believed to be the ideal weight that men want.
So it’s really important to realize that whatever a particular man prefers, he probably wants you to have a little more meat on your bones than you think he ideally wants.
(This study and others can be found in The Evolution of Desire by David M Buss) Now I am not saying go cancel your gym membership and eat a tub of ice cream on the couch.
So don’t fear putting on muscle – a little bit of muscle actually looks good on women.